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Dave Ellis put NJ on solid footing to advance PACEs science practices, policies

Jane Stevens Jane Stevens 5/17/223:36 PM

Two years ago, instead of retiring as planned, Dave Ellis decided to apply for the new position of “executive on loan” to create and lead the New Jersey Office of Resilience (OoR) in the Department of Children and Families (DCF). It is the first state-level office to integrate policies and practices based on the science of positive and adverse childhood experiences. His appointment electrified the national PACEs movement, not only because he was a pioneer in the movement, but because the state was willing to make some bold moves.

On Friday, DCF announced that Ellis is leaving May 31, at the end of his two-year contract. Although he may be leaving New Jersey, his commitment to integrating policies and practices based on PACEs science, especially in communities, hasn’t waned. He’s already received inquiries from other states and is adding to his busy consulting schedule.

In reaction to the announcement, a chorus of “oh nooooo’s” began echoing throughout New Jersey as well as other states. Yesterday, Ellis and I had a Zoom call to talk about his tenure and departure.

“I refuse to be upset,” says Ellis, a plain-speaking, truth-talking, advocate with an insatiable curiosity, “mainly because I knew from the very beginning that this was a two-year opportunity. It’s always been two years. I kept telling folks, it’s a two-year grant position.”

His intention for the two years was simple: “To come to New Jersey, to recognize the great work already happening, to move the state into a position of national recognition and to give the community the ability to actually implement things that it believes will work. I also wanted to give local communities a voice. With the $3-million micro-grant process that we’ve launched, the amazing ideas that communities have come up with, and the upcoming People’s Gathering in September, the state is poised to truly exhibit what it looks like to partner with communities most impacted by adversity.”

How NJ laid the groundwork

Three foundations and DCF created a sound foundation for Ellis arrival so that he could hit the ground running. In 2018, The Nicholson Foundation, the Burke Foundation and the Turrell Fund worked with DCF to begin the process of launching the Office of Resilience. Ellis was chosen to lead the office; he is not a state employee—his salary is paid by the foundations. His five team members are paid by the state.

In two short years, the Office of Resilience developed the NJ ACEs Statewide Action Plan; a statewide awareness campaign, Actions4ACEs, that targets educators and law enforcement; a healing-centered education pilot in 75 school districts; and has provided in-depth training for around 4,000 people through ACE Interface.

When they began their work in 2020, “DCF had little contact with the Native American community,” says Ellis. “Not until Dwana Young on my staff went out there and kept beating on doors. Now we’re connected to all three tribes and the New Jersey Commission on American Indian Affairs. That’s important because the Indigenous populations across the country are No. 1 in being disproportionally impacted by ACEs.”

Great accomplishments, and more work to do

“We’ve done so much, and yet there’s so much left to do,” says Ellis.

Ellis worked with DCF’s grant and contract units to use $3 million in federal funding to design a system of awarding microgrants. “We awarded $3 million to three nonprofits to distribute through a process that will allow small agencies and individuals to submit their ideas for consideration,” says Ellis. “A selection committee made up of Office of Resilience staff, DCF staff, the three awarded agencies and community members will select the ideas to be funded.”

The reporting process will be unlike most grants, notes Ellis. “I told them it’s quite simple,” he says. “I’m interested in what we are learning. Whether you fail or succeed, that’s the wrong question. It’s not about how many you served. If you’re succeeding, I’m more interested in what are you learning? If you’re failing, what are you learning? And how do we share all of that with community so that we all learn, and we can all move forward together?”

All people who participate in the grants— funders, organizations and individuals alike—have been or will be trained in PACEs science, so that it becomes part of the DNA of the work, he says. Unless people who administer the funds and carry out the projects do the difficult work of understanding their own childhood trauma, they can’t be as successful as they could be. Training will continue to expand: With the support of two small grants from foundations, a cohort of trainers is being coached to train all 6,700 DCF staff in PACEs science.

Long-term goals for a long-term effort

Ellis’ main concerns are ensuring sustainability of the work over the next couple of decades and making sure the work is centered in communities. “How do I put this office in a position so that 10 years from now, 20 years from now this is still relevant work? That’s why I wanted things grounded in community so that whatever we did, the community then had the ability to do it themselves.”

The state, foundations, communities need to invest in integrating PACEs science in communities and state agencies for the next 10 to 20 years, he says: “You have to invest for the long haul. We tend to invest for the short term rather than looking at the long game which, in this work, is required to actually prevent ACEs and increased PCEs (positive childhood experiences.” Only in this way can the state solve its most intractable problems.

“There’s a request into the governor for a $10-million allotment over three years of the federal American Rescue Plan Act funds to stabilize this office outside of DCF,” says Elllis. “Because if this effort stays only in one state agency as a statewide initiative, it becomes associated just with that agency. The design, from my perspective has always been, that the OoR in DCF would continue, but that there would be a statewide, much larger umbrella that would be outside of DCF.” The working name of the organization is the Healing NJ Together Technical Assistance Center. Suggestions for its location include being housed at a university, creating it as a standalone nonprofit, or as part of the state extension office. That will be determined after Ellis’ departure.

He would like to see more involvement from the legislature. “There is no state appropriation at this time,” he explains. And yet, this is a statewide initiative. It began as a governor’s initiative. A lot of the work going forward will require state support specifically to support the office.”

And, above all, communities need to continue to be at the center and foundation of the work. “You know who I mean by community,” he points out. “Those people who are most directly impacted need to be involved in all decisions about them. That’s not what the traditional model is, but I believe that unless until we engage with them, this change isn’t going to happen.

“What I really want to see us figure out is how to move from a place where we’re doing harm and to think about how we prevent it,” he continues. “How do we not just heal from childhood adversities and their effects, but how do we prevent them from occurring? That is the ultimate goal. It’s the one thing that I won’t stop fighting for. We can’t focus on only healing because that means that we’re allowing all of these things to continue.”

As we talk, in the background Ellis’ wife is busy packing boxes. “Somebody asked me the other day: Are you okay?” Ellis muses. “I’m better than okay. I feel good that when I leave here, and there’s somebody younger who comes in, I will certainly work to help them transition and give them whatever I can. But I’m not going to tell them how to do this job. I want them to do it their way.”

Over a relative short time, he, his team, the state departments he’s worked with and the communities he’s inspired have made huge strides in New Jersey. At the end of this month, he and his wife will move to Arizona where they’re building a house. And after a two-week vacation in Portugal, he’ll return to figure out his next challenge.

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A hero of the movement.

 

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Thank you Jane for the report. Dave has done amazing work, leaving a legacy. Exchanged brief messages a couple of days ago. Met him at my conference in February here Arizona, and he is coming here… interestingly small world and the movement advances wherever he goes!

 

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Connecting Communities One Book at a Time launches July 13: Register now to learn from our national and Georgia partners how to lead a book study of ‘What Happened To You?’

Natalie Audage Natalie Audage 7/5/229:30 AM

After more than two years of a deadly pandemic, a racial reckoning laying bare gross inequities, historic environmental catastrophes, and record-breaking gun violence and mental health challenges, could the first known national study of “What Happened to You?,” by Bruce D. Perry and Oprah Winfrey, help us heal our collective trauma, one relationship and community at a time?

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That’s the question Carey Sipp, PACEs Connection director of strategic partnerships, hopes will be answered with a resounding “yes” in the months and years following the July 13 launch of our Connecting Communities One Book at a Time reading initiative.

“I believe ‘What Happened to You?,’ a New York Times bestseller, is one of the most important works ever written on our collective public health crisis of trauma,” Sipp said. “This book  is a readable and relatable way to learn about trauma, its enormous impact in human suffering, loss of life and promise, economic costs and more. Whether you read it or listen to Perry and Oprah have the conversations, which I recommend, this book makes the science easy to understand. It is full of stunning insights, remarkable stories, and applicable solutions.

Carey Headshot 7.16.“Our hope is that asking ‘What happened?’ in community will lead to truth, empathy, compassion, connection. We hope that reading and studying the book together can help people process current and generational experiences, and learn about the science of PACEs – positive and adverse childhood experiences – and that this will lead to family and community efforts to prevent future trauma, and heal from past trauma,” she said.

PACEs Connection has partnered with the Children’s Trust Fund Alliance (CTF Alliance) and Georgia Essentials for Childhood, which is coordinated by Prevent Child Abuse Georgia and the Georgia Children’s Trust Fund, to organize six events (detailed below) related to the book study of “What Happened to You?” These events will be centered on helping people explore and share the book’s lessons on relational healing, intergenerational trauma, and community. The program will begin with a conversation between Perry, PACEs Connection CEO Ingrid Cockhren, and Mathew Portell, director of communities, on June 28 that will focus on historical trauma.

Georgia Reads was the inspiration

Sipp said the PACEs Connection initiative was inspired by the Georgia Reads “What Happened to You?” program, in which over 40 community book clubs, including the Georgia Parent Advisory Council group, met to discuss the book in 2021.

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“I learned about the success of the Georgia program, started by Deborah Chosewood and Jennifer Lee Stein, in a LinkedIn post from Deborah, who is also a community manager for Georgia PACEs Connection. She explained that the PAC book club used a multi-session guide for parents developed by the Children’s Trust Fund Alliance and now promoted by Perry, while the Georgia Reads book clubs used a one- or two-session discussion guide developed by Georgia Essentials for Childhood. Both guides will be highlighted and shared – at no cost – in our July 13 webinar, when we officially launch the book study and begin registering book study leaders,” Sipp said.

As a part of her work at PACEs Connection, Sipp leads the launch of the Connecting Communities One Book at a Time initiative with me, Natalie Audage, the PACEs Connection family and community resources lead. Our partners for this project include Teresa Rafael, Chloe Corrion, Kara Georgi, and Maureen Hollacker of the Children’s Trust Fund Alliance, and Deborah Chosewood and Jennifer Lee Stein of Georgia Essentials for Childhood.

“Our partners have been incredible in offering their time, the guides they created, and their experience to help lay out a series of events, including two support sessions for book study leaders and a follow-up session on protective factors, that we believe will help make this entire effort have a lasting impact in communities,” Sipp said. “We are hoping new PACEs Connection communities will form as the result of the study, and study leaders and participants will connect and become involved with some of our more than 400 geographic and 40 interest-based communities.”

Perry’s reflections on the national book study

Perry said he finds the national book study a very exciting opportunity. “I don’t think that there has been anything like the scale and scope of what you have planned,” he said.

“Certainly, the impact of stress, distress and trauma has been all over the news recently, and, over the last two years of the COVID-19 pandemic, people have experienced the dysregulating impact of unpredictability, relational disconnection, chronic vigilance, decision fatigue and, for some, serious traumatic loss,” Perry said. “So in some ways, the time is right to better understand and address these issues.

“In reality, however, all of human history has been characterized – and shaped –  by traumatic events of all sorts, natural disasters, war, misogyny, racism, and so much more. But, as Maya Angelou said, ’I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better.’ So let’s help people know better so we can all do better.”

He added that he hopes the book study ”helps stimulate a bit more curiosity and kindness, which will lead to more conversation and connection.”

Our partners hope their groups will join in

Chloe Corrion came up with the idea of creating a detailed chapter-by-chapter study guide of the book. “As Dr. Perry, says, ‘Healing happens in community’,” she said. “I’m so excited for this work to continue spreading so that more individuals and communities can begin or continue their healing journeys.”

“This book club is about building relationships while learning, growing and healing with others as we celebrate the effect protective factors can have on our lives,” said Kara Georgi, Corrion’s partner on the guide and co-facilitator of the Georgia Parent Advisory Committee book study. “It’s not about a single journey or solution. It is about us all being able to approach a great piece of science and personal narrative where we are at. We can then decide what intention we will take as we move forward in our lives and communities in strength-based ways.”

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Register now to attend the upcoming “What Happened to You?” events. Please see the attached flier for more information about each event.

We hope you will join us on this journey, and we look forward to seeing you at the upcoming events!

In the meantime, stay tuned for future blog posts from PACEs Connection about our Historical Trauma in America series, and from our partners about the impact of Georgia Reads, the compelling story behind the Children’s Trust Fund Alliance guide, and more.

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Successful launch of our first Connecting Communities One Book at a Time initiative: “What Happened to You?”

Natalie Audage Natalie Audage 9/28/2210:55 AM

PACEs Connection is thrilled to share that our first-ever Connecting Communities One Book at a Time initiative involved thousands of people; scores of book studies! The PACEs Connection’s Connecting Communities One Book at a Time initiative helps people bring their community together around books that help us have critical conversations about trauma, racism, inequity, protective factors, positive childhood experiences, and the role community plays in preventing and healing trauma and creating resiliency.

Our first book was What Happened to You? by Bruce D. Perry, MD PhD, and Oprah Winfrey. We’re excited to report that a total of 4,454 people registered for at least one of the six What Happened to You? book study events, and 136 people signed up to lead book studies in their communities.

We want to extend our gratitude to our wonderful partners in this effort: Children’s Trust Fund Alliance (CTF Alliance) and Georgia Essentials for Childhood, which is coordinated by Prevent Child Abuse Georgia and the Georgia Children’s Trust Fund.

Together with our partners, we hosted six book study events:

  • Meet the Author: a discussion of historical trauma in America with Bruce Perry,  PACEs Connection CEO Ingrid Cockhren, and director of communities Mathew Portell on June 28
  • Lead Your Own What Happened to You? Book Study on July 13
  • Book Study Leader Training by Children’s Trust Fund Alliance on July 27
  • Book Study Leader Check-In with Children’s Trust Fund Alliance on Aug. 10
  • Moving Families from Surviving to Thriving: Strengthening Families Protective Factors Framework Overview by Children’s Trust Fund Alliance on Aug. 30
  • Book Study Leader Check-In with Children’s Trust Fund Alliance on Sept. 20

As we wrap up our efforts, we want to share some next steps:

1. If you hosted a book study, please tell us about it in our What Happened to You? Book Study Evaluation.

2. It’s not too late to host a What Happened to You? book study in your community! You can still learn from all of the recordings and resources below and register to lead your own book study!

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3. Join us for our next book study in the Connecting Communities One Book at a Time initiative!

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Our next book is Girls on the Brink: Helping Our Daughters Thrive in an Era of Increased Anxiety, Depression, and Social Media by Donna Jackson Nakazawa. Jackson Nakazawa will join PACEs Connection for our second Connecting Communities One Book at a Time book study webinar to discuss the book, why she wrote, it, and why it is so vitally important. The webinar is on October 12, 3-4:30 p.m. ET.

Register for the free webinar here, now!

You can also learn more about the book and why we chose it. Please share the attached flier widely!

If you are already involved in our book study initiative, we look forward to seeing you at our next event on October 12! If you are not, we invite you to join us as we work to Connect Communities One Book at a Time!

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Start your own book study of ‘Girls on the Brink’ by Donna Jackson Nakazawa!

Natalie Audage Natalie Audage 11/1/224:59 PM

“Extremely important” and “very needed” were among the comments of the nearly 100 attendees of the second Connecting Communities One Book at a Time book study webinar when they described Girls on the Brink: Helping Our Daughters Thrive in an Era of Increased Anxiety, Depression, and Social Media.

The book, published on September 13, 2022, was the focus of a conversation between the author, Donna Jackson Nakazawa, and Carey Sipp, PACEs Connection director of strategic partnerships, on October 12, 2022.

Donna Jackson NakazawaAs Nakazawa writes in the introduction of her book, “Depression has long been more prevalent in girls than in boys, but rates of depression in girls have now reached epidemic proportions.  One in four adolescent girls reports suffering from symptoms of major depression compared with fewer than one in ten boys. Girls and young women are twice as likely as boys to suffer from anxiety. In 2021, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reported that suicide attempts had recently increased 51 percent among girls compared with 4 percent among boys. These statistics cannot be explained by higher rates of awareness or diagnosis. They are real, and they are scary to every parent of every daughter and to anyone who cares about young women.”

She writes further, “In many ways I wrote this book because I felt a moral imperative to close the gap between what experts have learned about growing strong girls in an increasingly threat-laden ear and what parents need to know.”

“PACE’s Connection’s Connecting Communities One Book at a Time initiative was created to bring communities together around books that help us have critical conversations about trauma, racism, inequity, positive and adverse childhood experiences, and the role community plays in preventing and healing trauma and creating resiliency,” said Sipp. “The mental health of our young people is a concern in every community in the world right now. We believed this book could bring communities together to address a particularly frightening trend involving the increase in depression and anxiety in girls,” she added.

The conversation between Nakazawa and Sipp covered myriad topics, including the effects of unmitigated stress on the female brain, epigenetics, the complex interactions between estrogen and the female brain during adolescent development, sexism, the evolutionary mismatch between girls’ sensitivity to social cues and today’s social media culture, and the finding that the stress response can be decreased by talking to one trusted caregiver.

Nakazawa was clear that while she sees much to worry about girls’ mental health today, she also has hope. She offers 15 antidotes or “strategies for raising emotionally healthy girls” in the book and spoke about a few of them in the webinar.

Antidotes fall into three categories and include three on “the building blocks of good parent-child connection, and the importance of family connection,” six antidotes for “making her home a safe space,” and six antidotes to “bring in what the wider community can provide.” The interview honed in on at least one antidote from each of the three categories, including making it a good experience when your daughter turns to you, the importance of “wonder”, and encouraging a sense of mastery.

“We need to spread Nakazawa’s research and her message of hope. There is so much we can do to improve the mental health of the girls in our lives” said one participant. Another attendee wrote: “Thank you Donna! You’ve changed my life for the better—and I’ve shared your message with many, MANY others…”

“PACEs Connection encourages our members to come together in their communities of friends, colleagues, family members, and fellow parents to start a book study of Girls on the Brink,” said Sipp.”Book studies are terrific ways for communities to address challenges while building the relationships that can help reinforce solutions. We’d love to see many, many communities come together to share Donna’s work and help girls thrive, and have created tools to make this easy for our members to invite their friends, family members, others in their resiliency initiatives, parents of their daughters’ schoolmates, or other groups, to start a book club.”

Here are some resources to help members start their own book studies:

  1. If you missed the event, you can still view the recording of the Girls on the Brink October 12 webinar! You can also listen to an edited version that we prepared for our History. Culture. Trauma. podcast.
  2. Nakazawa and her team put together a wonderful Book Club Kit for people interested in leading Girls on the Brink book studies.
  3. Here’s a handout with tips and items to consider before starting a Girls on the Brink book study.
  4. You can use this recruiting postcard to invite people to join your book study.
  5. If you plan to lead a book study, please fill out the Girls on the Brink Book Study Leader Survey so we can keep track of the great work you’re doing!

Book Club Kit“Please join us as we work to Connect Communities One Book at a Time. By reading the book with a group of friends in your book study of Girls on the Brink, you can be part of the solution. All of us can play a part in supporting girls’ mental health,” said Sipp.

Connecting Communities One Book at a Time launched in June with a study of What Happened to You? by Dr. Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey, and resulted in more than 130 book clubs forming across the country, according to Sipp.

“We are thrilled to deliver study guides, support, and a connecting place for our members to come together, learn from the authors, share and learn from each other. We’ve even created an invitation leaders can use to invite members of the community to join their book study, to make it as easy as possible for them to get started,” said Sipp.

“We’d love to see this grow and bring unique books and opportunities to our more than 430 geographic and 40 interest-based communities, and hope they’ll use the book studies as ways to grow their communities, too!” she added.

Sipp encourages book study leaders to please register their book study with PACEs Connection, and to answer a few questions to help in planning for the next study. “Also, as we, learn about new resources that could become available in the “Girls on the Brink” book study, having this information helps us share news with book study leaders,” said Sipp.

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There remains platitudinous lip-service by society in genera, including police services, when it comes to proactive mental illness prevention as well as treatment. Various mainstream news and social media will state the obvious, that society must open up its collective minds and common dialogue when it comes to far more progressively addressing the challenge of more fruitfully treating and preventing such illness in general.   

But they will typically fail to address the problem of ill men, or even boys, refusing to open up and/or ask for help due to their fear of being perceived by peers, etcetera, as weak/non-masculine. The social ramifications exist all around us; indeed, it is endured, however silently, by males of/with whom we are aware/familiar or to whom so many of us are closely related. 

Even today, there remains a mentality, albeit perhaps a subconscious one: Men can take care of themselves, and boys often are basically little men.

Even Ms. Jackson Nakazawa’s own book, Childhood Disrupted, was only able to include one man among its six interviewed adult subjects, there presumably being such a small pool of ACE-traumatized men willing to formally tell his own story of childhood abuse.

One must ask: Is it yet more (in a societal pile of) evidence of a continuing subtle societal take-it-like-a-man mindset, one in which so many men will choose to abstain from ‘complaining’ about their torturous youth, as that is what ‘real men’ do?

One also sees some of that mentality reflected in, for example, a New York Times feature story (“She Was a Big Hit on TikTok. Then a Fan Showed Up With a Gun”, February 19, 2022). Written by Times reporter Elizabeth Williamson, the piece at one point states that “Instagram, owned by Meta, formerly known as Facebook, has … been accused of causing mental and emotional health problems among teenage female users.”

The fact is, mental and emotional — along with physical — health problems are being suffered by teenage boys directly due to social media use. Revelatory of the latter is the increasing incidence of social-media-focused obsession among boys with gaining significant muscle mass, a.k.a. “bigorexia”.

The author of The Highly Sensitive Man (2019, Tom Falkenstein, Ch.1) writes that There are “numerous psychological studies over the last forty years that tell us that, despite huge social change, the stereotypical image of the ‘strong man’ is still firmly with us at all ages, in all ethnic groups, and among all socio-economic backgrounds. In the face of problems, men tend not to seek out emotional or professional help from other people. They use, more often than women, alcohol or drugs to numb unpleasant feelings and, in crises, tend to try to deal with things on their own, instead of searching out closeness or help from others.

“While it is true that a higher percentage of women than men will be diagnosed with an anxiety disorder or a depressive episode, the suicide rate among men is much higher. In the United States, the suicide rate is notably higher in men than in women. According to data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, men account for 77 percent of the forty-five thousand people who kill themselves every year in the United States.

“In fact, men commit suicide more than women everywhere in the world. Men are more likely to suffer from addiction, and when men discuss depressive symptoms with their doctor, they are less likely than women to be diagnosed with depression and consequently don’t receive adequate therapeutic and pharmacological treatment.”

While it’s important that the notable needs of girls’ mental health get properly addressed, society also needs to do more for its males.

 

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Carey Sipp Carey Sipp 7/24/174:56 PM

I almost felt slapped in the face – a wakeup slap; not a punishment – when I read Cissy White’s groundbreaking post describing her joy in finding out her “ACE score.”

Her writing about her elation at learning about the Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) study and questionnaire was an unintentional throw-down on her part. As I read her post I was compelled to reframe my shame, fear, and overall sense of dread about my own high ACE score. (Cissy has given me permission to use her name and to mention her writing.)

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Carey,

I’m quite certain that “Fore-Shortened Sense of the Future” PTSD ‘symptom’, was a ‘contributing factor’ in some of my own adolescent ‘Independent Living’ challenges, such as moving into my own apartment during my Senior Year of High School, after ‘couch surfing’ with friends, for a couple months. …

I wonder what in the World Health Organization’s ACE Screening Tool might address this, as it’s quite a bit more extensive than the CDC/Kaiser 8/10 question ACE Screening tool. It’s called the ‘WHO ACE International Questionaire’, and is available in over 100 languages on the WHO main page: lower Right corner-last time I checked.

 

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Christine Cissy WhiteChristine Cissy WhiteIt’s not trauma-informed unless it’s informed by trauma survivors.

Carey:

You bring up such an important topic and you write so well. It’s a little strange to read my name in your piece but if I helped provoke thoughts, feelings or writing in any way – that makes me so happy.

You wrote:

“Do you think, possibly, that people with high scores who have money issues could be spending money quickly because we think, on some deep level, we might not live to see the next day?” I asked.

Isn’t it cool how we get that aha awareness when curious and open and we feel safe? And when we feel we can talk and think and share about our actual issues and experiences? I think there’s so much freedom and relief in that even if we have to face uncomfortable stuff. 

I can’t wait to learn more from you about trauma-informed approaches to money and security and finances!. Lots of us have been, will be or are in the same boat or one like it floating on the same ocean 

Thanks for sharing. I love this passage, too. 

It was a soul-searing moment, as I let what I had asked sink in. The resulting pain and my awareness of it led to the realization that I needed to do more work on my trauma issues and start managing my finances in a “trauma-informed” way, as I realized, on a deep level, that have been a fear-based spender and under-earner most of my life.  How to get to the solution? Sometimes we have to look backward to go forward.

You are a beautiful writer and have so much insight, honesty, and passion. I’m glad writing and this page helped us get to know each other better. Thank you for helping all of us all better understand this issue.

THANK YOU!

Cissy

 

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‘Girls on the Brink’ — next choice for upcoming PACEs Connection book study – available in “indie bookstores” for a discount!

Carey Sipp Carey Sipp 9/13/221:46 PM

“Girls on the Brink: Helping Our Daughters Thrive in an Era of Increased Anxiety, Depression, and Social Media”, published today, is available at a pre-launch discount of up to $1.96 (from the $28 cover price to $26.04) via independent bookstores.

The book is the seventh by Donna Jackson Nakazawa, acclaimed author, science journalist, international speaker and longtime friend of PACEs Connection.

Jackson will join PACEs Connection for our second “Connecting Communities One Book at a Time” book study webinar to discuss the book, why she wrote, it, and why it is so vitally important. The webinar is on October 12, 3-4:30 p.m. ET. Register for the webinar here, now!

To preorder the book and support local independent bookstores, use this link. The book is also available on Amazon Kindle for just $13.

PACEs Connection’s “Connecting Communities One Book at a Time initiative” brings communities together around books that help us have critical conversations about positive and adverse childhood experiences, racism, inequity, and how communities can prevent and heal trauma and create resiliency.

Girls on the Brink title graphic with QR codePraise for “Girls on the Brink”

“This is a brave and important book; the challenging stories—both personal and scientific—will make you think, and, hopefully, act.”

—Bruce D. Perry, MD, PhD, New York Times bestselling co-author of “What Happened to You?”

“Some books translate science into understandable language; some offer advice in the form of actionable steps; and some weave stories that grab you by the heart. This one—miraculously—does all three.”—Cara Natterson, MD, bestselling author of “The Care and Keeping of You 2” and “Decoding Boys”.

“A perceptive, informative examination of the problems young American girls face and how to change them . . . All of the author’s advice is sound, and her insights into how to start the process of change make this an important book for parents of girls.”—Kirkus Reviews

“The smart analysis and wealth of neuroscientific and psychological research adds nuance to public discourse around girls’ mental health. . . . Timely and incisive, this issues an acute warning that the kids are not alright.”Publishers Weekly

From the book cover:

Anyone caring for girls today knows that our daughters, students, and girls next door are more anxious and more prone to depression and self-harming than ever before. The question that no one has yet been able to credibly answer is “Why?”

Now we have answers. As award-winning writer Donna Jackson Nakazawa deftly explains in Girls on the Brink, new findings reveal that the crisis facing today’s girls is a biologically rooted phenomenon: The earlier onset of puberty mixes badly with the unchecked bloom of social media and cultural misogyny. When this toxic clash occurs during the critical neurodevelopmental window of adolescence, it can alter the female stress-immune response in ways that derail healthy emotional development.

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Donna Jackson Nakazawa is an award-winning science journalist and author of seven books. Her work explores the intersection of neuroscience, immunology, and human emotion; her mission is to explore the science of the mind-body connection and harness it for healing.

Nakazawa’s other books include “The Angel and the Assassin: The Tiny Brain Cell That Changed the Course of Medicine” named one of the best books of 2020 by Wired magazine; “Childhood Disrupted, a finalist for the Books for a Better Life Award; and “The Last Best Cure”.

Her writing has appeared in magazines and newspapers including WiredThe Boston GlobeStatThe Washington Post and Health Affairs. She has appeared on The Today Show and National Public Radio, and is a regular speaker at universities, including the Harvard Division of Science Library Series, Rutgers University, the Andrew Weil Center for Integrative Medicine at the University of Arizona, the Peace & Justice Institute, Learning and the Brain, and Johns Hopkins University.

For her writing on health and science, she received the AESKU lifetime achievement award and the National Health Information Award.

Nakazawa is also the creator and founder of the narrative writing-to-heal program, “Your Healing Narrative, which uses a process called Neural Re-Narrating™ to help participants recognize and override their brain’s old thought patterns and internalized stories to create a new, more powerful, inner healing narrative that calms the body, brain, and nervous system.

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Register now! Oct. 12, 2022—Connecting Communities One Book at a Time webinar with Donna Jackson Nakazawa on “Girls on the Brink: Helping our Daughters Thrive in an Era of Increased Anxiety, Depression and Social Media”

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October 12, 2022, from 3-4:30 p.m. ET Register now!

Screen Shot 2022-08-30 at 3.20.08 PMMeet longtime friend of PACEs Connection and award-winning author, science journalist, and international speaker Donna Jackson Nakazawa as she shares insights and findings from her newest book, “Girls on the Brink: Helping our Daughters Thrive in an Era of Increased Anxiety, Depression and Social Media”. Her seven books explore the intersection of neuroscience, immunology, and human emotion, and are in 12 languages.

Register now to join our conversation with Nakazawa and be sure to invite your friends so we can all learn how to support our daughters, sisters, nieces, students, and friends in this stressful and toxic time for girls. You can also learn how to lead your own book study.

Screen Shot 2022-06-06 at 3.28.42 PMPACEs Connection’s Connecting Communities One Book at a Time initiative brings communities together around books that help us have critical conversations about positive and adverse childhood experiences, racism, inequity, and how communities can prevent and heal trauma and create resiliency.

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“This is a brave and important book; the challenging stories—both personal and scientific—will make you think, and, hopefully, act.”

—Bruce D. Perry, MD, PhD, New York Times bestselling co-author of “What Happened to You?”

“Some books translate science into understandable language; some offer advice in the form of actionable steps; and some weave stories that grab you by the heart. This one—miraculously—does all three.”—Cara Natterson, MD, bestselling author of “The Care and Keeping of You 2” and “Decoding Boys”.

“A perceptive, informative examination of the problems young American girls face and how to change them . . . All of the author’s advice is sound, and her insights into how to start the process of change make this an important book for parents of girls.”—Kirkus Reviews

“The smart analysis and wealth of neuroscientific and psychological research adds nuance to public discourse around girls’ mental health. . . . Timely and incisive, this issues an acute warning that the kids are not alright.”Publishers Weekly

From the book cover:

Anyone caring for girls today knows that our daughters, students, and girls next door are more anxious and more prone to depression and self-harming than ever before. The question that no one has yet been able to credibly answer is “Why?”

Now we have answers. As award-winning writer Donna Jackson Nakazawa deftly explains in Girls on the Brink, new findings reveal that the crisis facing today’s girls is a biologically rooted phenomenon: The earlier onset of puberty mixes badly with the unchecked bloom of social media and cultural misogyny. When this toxic clash occurs during the critical neurodevelopmental window of adolescence, it can alter the female stress-immune response in ways that derail healthy emotional development.

About the author:

Donna Jackson Nakazawa is an award-winning science journalist and author of seven books. Her work explores the intersection of neuroscience, immunology, and human emotion; her mission is to explore the science of the mind-body connection and harness it for healing.

Nakazawa’s other books include “The Angel and the Assassin: The Tiny Brain Cell That Changed the Course of Medicine”, named one of the best books of 2020 by Wired magazine; “Childhood Disrupted, a finalist for the Books for a Better Life Award; and “The Last Best Cure”.

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Her writing has appeared in magazines and newspapers including WiredThe Boston GlobeStatThe Washington Post and Health Affairs. She has appeared on The Today Show and National Public Radio, and is a regular speaker at universities, including the Harvard Division of Science Library Series, Rutgers University, the Andrew Weil Center for Integrative Medicine at the University of Arizona, the Peace & Justice Institute, Learning and the Brain, and Johns Hopkins University.

For her writing on health and science, she received the AESKU lifetime achievement award and the National Health Information Award.

Nakazawa is also the creator and founder of the narrative writing-to-heal program, “Your Healing Narrative, which uses a process called Neural Re-Narrating™ to help participants recognize and override their brain’s old thought patterns and internalized stories to create a new, more powerful, inner healing narrative that calms the body, brain, and nervous system.

For more information about the Connecting Communities One Book at a Time initiative, please contact Carey Sipp, PACEs Connection’s director of strategic partnerships at csipp@pacesconnection.com

Registration for this Zoom webinar is through eventbrite.

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‘Girls on the Brink’ Author Donna Jackson Nakazawa on this week’s History. Culture. Trauma. podcast

Carey Sipp Carey Sipp 10/25/223:32 PM

Donna Jackson Nakazawa, author of six books and longtime friend of PACEs Connection, joins the History. Culture. Trauma. podcast this week in an excerpt from the launch of her sixth book, “Girls on the Brink—Helping our Daughters Thrive in an Era of Increased Anxiety, Depression and Social Media.”

Screen Shot 2022-10-12 at 1.25.13 PM“Anyone caring for girls today knows that our daughters, students, and girls next door are more anxious and more prone to depression and self-harming than ever before,” said Nakazawa. But the question that seemed to have no answer was: “Why?” That’s why Nakazawa wrote the book, which she called a true labor of love.

The podcast comprises excerpts from a recent discussion among Nakazawa and PACEs Connection staff members Carey Sipp and Natalie Audage. Nakazawa noted that this time is especially challenging for girls. She cited the cultural challenges of social media and peer pressure as well as scientific evidence of hormonal and other biological changes in girls that are a cause for concern.

“The earlier onset of puberty mixes badly with the unchecked bloom of social media and cultural misogyny,” Nakazawa explained. “When this toxic clash occurs during the critical neurodevelopmental window of adolescence, it can alter the female stress-immune response in ways that derail healthy emotional development.”

Screen Shot 2022-10-25 at 5.28.25 PMThe interview also focused on several of the 15 “antidotes” Nakazawa offers in this highly acclaimed book, as well as which factors in research on positive childhood experiences are most likely to help girls become secure and confident young women. Antidotes fall into three categories and include three on “the building blocks of good parent-child connection, and the importance of family connection,” six antidotes for “making her home a safe space,” and six antidotes to “bring in what the wider community can provide.” The interview honed in on at least one antidote from each of the three categories, including making it a good experience when your daughter turns to you, the importance of “wonder”, and encouraging a sense of mastery.

Nakazawa is an award winning science journalist, public speaker, and author of “The Last Best Cure”, in which she chronicled her year-long journey to health. “Childhood Disrupted” was born from the author’s own search to better understand the role her own childhood adversity played in the chronic health issues she faced as an adult.

Nakazawa lectures nationwide and has appeared on the TODAY Show, National Public Radio, and ABC News. Her work has been featured on the cover of Parade, in Time Magazine, USA Today Weekend, Parenting, and Psychology Today. She has been a regular contributor to More and her research has been covered by The Washington Post, Glamour, Ladies Home Journal, and AARP: the Magazine. Donna blogs regularly for Psychology Today.

The book is the second selection of the PACEs Connection Connecting Communities One Book at a Time book study. The first selection was “What Happened to You?” by Dr. Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey. More than 130 book studies formed as the result of the new initiative to communities together around books that help us have critical conversations about positive and adverse childhood experiences, racism, inequity, and how communities can prevent and heal trauma and create resiliency.

Tune into the interview broadcast at 1 p.m. PT; 4 p.m. ET on Thursday, October 27 here.

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‘We cannot let this shining star die,’ says Peter Chiavetta, volunteer emergency medical technician and PACEs Connection donor.

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Note: PACEs Connection is in dire financial straits. We need you, our 57,651 members, to help cover the loss of foundation funding that was promised and did not come through. Unfortunately, pay and hours have had to be cut for our staff. Most of us will be laid-off for the month of December. The good news is that, since sounding the alarm this Summer, we’ve raised $46,000! Thank you to all who’ve donated. To get a sense of who your fellow members are, who is donating, and why, please read and share this fourth in a series of donor profiles. Now that you know we need your help, please join Peter Chiavetta and make a generous donationto PACEs Connection!

Peter Chiavetta said he knew what he wanted to do when he was three years old.

“When I was three,” says Chiavetta, now 70, “there was a threat of nuclear war. Everyone was scared. And I knew then I wanted to save the world.”

At 21, Chiavetta witnessed a horrific car crash, one he himself was almost in. As he stood watching a victim, not knowing how to help, he knew he had to learn how to save people’s lives in emergencies. So he became a volunteer emergency medical technician (EMT) at the Farnham New York Fire Department & Seneca Volunteer Fire/EMs Department.

Fast forward 40 years and many emergencies later. That’s when Chiavetta stumbled on the Adverse Childhood Experience survey (ACEs) study, (CDC-Kaiser Permanente Adverse Childhood Experiences Study). It was then he knew he’d found the way to do what he’d wanted to do since he was that three-year-old child.

“I always said if I found a way to help this country continue, I would support it. The PACEs science movement is that movement.”

For Chiavetta, the ACE Study was the “aha” moment he needed to connect the dots between people having challenging childhoods and then experiencing chronic health problems as adults. And he saw no reason to not help people connect the dots…in his family catering business, with his family, in medical offices and town meetings, and on his most familiar turf—the back of an ambulance.

Learning about the ACE Study in 2014 put it all together for Chiavetta, who is, to his knowledge, the only EMT in the country spreading the news about PACEs science in a formal way, on almost every call.

Chiavetta counts connecting with Jane Stevens, founder and publisher of then ACEs Connection, now PACEs Connection, as a turning point for him.

“Jane brought, in ACEs Connection, the information, community, tools, courage, and more,” he says. All of which help Chiavetta on his quest to make the science mainstream, a matter of course everywhere, all the time, and make Chiavetta an ardent supporter of PACEs Connection.

“I always said that If I found a movement that I would help this country continue, that I would support it. The PACEs science movement is that movement. It can keep this country going—the understanding, forgiveness, help and hope it brings. And PACEs Connection leads the movement, because it can help people understand that the accidents they’re in, the diseases they have, they are not their fault,” Chiavetta says.

“I now know how to look at everything through a trauma lens, and can help people. I ask a motorcycle accident victim about his childhood while we’re in the back of an ambulance. I hear he’s had a rough childhood. I can say, ‘Man, I hear you’ve had a tough life and an even tougher childhood. It’s not your fault. And this accident is not your fault,’’’ he said.

“I tell him he’s not alone, and that he should have been protected, cared for and loved. It’s that easy to help someone,” Chiavetta says.

A copyPlanting seeds for patients to understand the impact of trauma on their children.

He believes it is that easy to help people begin to see that they want their children to have better lives, to plant the seed of their wanting their children to know the love, protection and security they may have missed.

“I support PACEs Connection because of what it has given back to me—the information to help people forgive themselves and start their lives with a new understanding of how they are where they are,” he says. “I am helping them. ”

Though Chiavetta does far more than have moments of connection in a speeding ambulance.

He has a handout he shares, goes over it with patients, and checks on them in the hospital. He estimates that he’s shared his eight-page handout (shared below) with more than a thousand people over the years.

He’s not saving the world in a grand, single swoop, but he is helping to change the world for those patients. He has a brief chat with each that helps them connect their childhood trauma with why their lives have turned out the way they have, and what they can do to help turn things around. And then he hands them easy-to-understand bits of the science, along with some inspiration. He believes some of this sharing is taken to heart.

“I recently had coffee with an old friend, and she said she wanted me to know how much what I have done over the years has helped our town, with working for better safety in getting four-way stops instead of lights, and in helping share this information about ACEs. It felt good,” he says.

For Chiavetta, the benefit of PACEs Connection has been getting the word out on the science and tracking how it is changing the world. It also validates him as he takes the science with him into hospitals and board rooms.

Documentation and dissemination—outside the comfort zone.

“We are tracking the integration of PACEs into the workplace. It’s not in the culture yet, but seeing the work go into the workplace gives us hope,” he says.

“PACEs Connection has documented that and it helps feed the hope that we will eventually see the integration occur throughout our culture. I’m on a call on Mondays with other people who want to apply what they know about PACEs science in the workplace, and they experience pushback as they try to get trauma-informed care going. Having PACEs Connection helps keep us going. It’s the documentation and the dissemination of what we know. It gives us validity. It helps us step outside of our comfort zone to push for a more trauma-informed world.”

How does he hope PACEs science will change the world?

Screen Shot 2022-11-15 at 7.40.36 PM“So many young people who are stuck think they don’t deserve to have better lives,” he explains. “This science helps people realize they don’t have to live this life—there is an alternative. I’ve heard it said that ‘traumatized people stand on the grave of dreams.’ Traumatized people have dreams, but don’t know how to access them. I think this information helps people access those dreams. It helps prevent more trauma. It helps them realize the struggle is on the inside.”

“I wish some politician would get up and say ‘I want one year of paid paternity leave.’ One year of paid paternity leave would turn the world upside down,” he explains. “I wish they’d ask for it and go into the ‘why’ of talking about the importance of secure attachment, safe, stable, nurturing environments. PACEs Connection helps get ideas such as that out there.”

“It’s too early for this shining star to die.”

Why should other members of PACEs Connection provide financial support to our organization?

Chiavetta is straightforward in his answer.

“It’s too early for a shining star to die,” he says. “We really need to perpetuate the efforts of PACEs Connection. It can become extinct. When trauma-informed care first started in western New York, people poured everything into it, and it failed. And then it got resurrected again. But the original founders of it lost traction. They had all the enthusiasm in the world and lost traction.

“I feel like we’re showing people the door to save themselves, and people are still running back into the fire. It is very important that PACEs Connection keep going—that it be that light, be that open door. This is the direction.”

Chiavetta encourages fellow members of PACEs Connection to join him in making a generous, tax-deductible donation to PACEs Connection here.

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Make check payable to:
TSNE (Third Sector New England, our fiscal sponsor) and write PACEs Connection Donation on the memo line.

Mail check to:
PACEs Connection, c/o TSNE, 89 South Street, Suite 700, Boston, MA 02111

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Please contact Carey Sipp, Director of Strategic Partnerships, at csipp@pacesconnection.com

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Join us for ‘History. Culture. Trauma.’ encore podcast — Thursday 1PM PT with “Girls on the Brink” author Donna Jackson Nakazawa

Carey Sipp Carey Sipp 6/6/232:56 PM

A headline earlier this year said it simply: Social Media is Devastating Girls Mental Health.Donna Jackson Nakazawa, an award-winning science journalist and the author of seven books exploring the intersection of neuroscience, immunology, and human emotion, is featured in this week’s episode of History  Culture. Trauma, and explains the crisis facing today’s girls as being a biologically rooted phenomenon, and more, and offers solutions to the crisis that has many parents wondering what they can do.“The earlier onset of puberty mixes badly with the unchecked bloom of social media and cultural misogyny. When this toxic clash occurs during the critical neurodevelopmental window of adolescence, it can alter the female stress-immune response in ways that derail healthy emotional development,” explains Nakazawa.Screen Shot 2023-06-06 at 4.50.27 PMThis week’s encore episode of History. Culture. Trauma. is an excerpt from a recorded interview of Nakazawa conducted by PACEs Connection team members Carey Sipp and Natalie Audage in October, 2022, as a part of  the PACEs Connection Connecting Communities One Book at a Time initiative. The initiative featured her latest book Girls on the Brink: Helping Our Daughters Thrive in an Era of Increased Anxiety, Depression, and Social Media. The book was published last October.In this interview,  Nakazawa focuses on the impact of modern society on adolescent girls. “Anyone caring for girls today knows that our daughters, students, and girls next door are more anxious and more prone to depression and self-harming than ever before. The question that no one has yet been able to credibly answer is “Why?”Screen Shot 2023-06-06 at 4.47.40 PMNakazawa was clear that while she sees much to worry about girls’ mental health today, she also has hope. She offers 15 antidotes or “strategies for raising emotionally healthy girls” in the book and spoke about a several of them during the webinar from which this interview is gleaned. (See below for resources, including a link to the longer webinar interview in which she details the strategies.)Antidotes fall into three categories and include three on “the building blocks of good parent-child connection, and the importance of family connection,” six antidotes for “making her home a safe space,” and six antidotes to “bring in what the wider community can provide.” The longer webinar interview honed in on at least one antidote from each of the three categories, including making it a good experience when your daughter turns to you, the importance of “wonder”, and encouraging a sense of mastery.Jackson Nakazawa has appeared on The Today Show and NPR, and is a regular speaker at universities, including the Harvard Division of Science Library Series, Rutgers University, Johns Hopkins, Learning and the Brain, and the Andrew Weil Center for Integrative Medicine at the University of Arizona. She is also the creator and founder of the narrative writing-to-heal program, which uses a process called Neural Re-Narrating to help participants recognize and override their brain’s old thought patterns and internalized stories.

Listen to “History. Culture. Trauma.” here online on Thursday, or access this, or prior podcasts, at the podcast service of your choice listed below.

Additional resources related to our book study of “Girls on the Brink”

  1. You can still view the recording of the Girls on the Brink October 12 webinar!
  2. Nakazawa and her team created a Book Club Kit for people interested in leading Girls on the Brink book studies.